To All The Boys….
I really had no clue. I thought the only ways a guy could disrespect a woman was by by either raping her or hitting her. Everything else was not that bad. I was unaware of all of the different ways men financially, emotionally, sexually and physically mistreat woman, because unfortunately they seem quite normalised in society.
I had no idea about boundaries. I had no idea about healthy relationships. So I let all you boys do all sorts of things when you dated me, I didnt have a clue.
But I want you to all know I forgive you,
To the boy who hacked my email and emailed everyone pretending to be me, because I’d broken up with you, I forgive you.
To the boy who told me I had to have sex with him, because it wasn’t a real relationship without sex, I forgive you.
To the boy who put his hand up my dress at a party when I’d already told him I wasn’t interested, I forgive you.
To the boy who asked me to lose weight coz our photos together would look better, I forgive you.
To the boy who threatened suicide when I didn’t have sex with him, I forgive you.
To the boy who moved in with me for 9 months but refused to give me any money for power, rent or food even though you were working full time and I was a student, I forgive you.
To the boy who got a lap dance from a stripper right in front of me, I forgive you.
To the boy who messaged other girls sexual and romantic content and then called me paranoid when I found out, I forgive you.
To the boy who threatened to break up with me every time I didn’t do what he wanted, I forgive you.
To all the boys who mistreated me, I forgive you.